I must say, being married is a beautiful experience. The euphoria of having to live with a man you love does not go away for a while. For some people, it does not go away at all as every day is a new experience for them.
Couples at the initial stage of their marriages are so concerned about living right and doing everything well. They try as much as possible to be of best behavior and avoid things that would make them fight. Overtime, the level of work they put into the relationship or marriage reduces. This is because many of them suddenly get comfortable with their partners and feel there is no need to impress them anymore.
They become too relaxed and assume their partners would not go anywhere; most of the promises they made to each other at the beginning of their relationship get broken and they do not pay any attention to it. Women are guilty in this aspect; many of them stop being sassy and classy the moment they get married.
They feel they have nothing more to lose once they are married. This piece would be looking at the things Nigerian wives do after marriage. Here are some of the things Nigerian wives would always do in marriage:
1. Level Of Hygiene Reduce
We all know how conscious women are when it comes to their level of hygiene during courtship. They do not want the men to be turned off and do everything they could to be the attractive ladies who want to settle down as soon as possible.
After being married, these women start to relax and pay little or no attention to themselves. They do not shave regularly and only do so when their husbands complain about it.
This piece is not aimed at humiliating anyone, but then it would be nice for many of the Nigerian wives to step up in this aspect. Unshaven pubic hair could be a turn off for their husbands and it also harbors dirt.
2. Not Paying Attention To Their Husbands’ Rants
Many women in this part of the country do not enjoy watching football. They would rather watch African Magic channels, Telemundo or Zee world. They understand that football matters to the men and would allow them have their moment.
One thing Nigerian wives are known for when it comes to football is not paying attention. As much as the men talk to them about a team and the coach, they really cannot tell which is which.
3. Being Poky
As much as women could act indifferent and nonchalant about their husbands’ affairs, they still want to know what they have been doing on their phones. Nigerian wives would always steal a moment or two to peep at their husbands’ phones when they are not within their reach.
Curiosity they say kills the cat. Nigerian wives know they would always find something that would bother them when they check their husbands’ phones but they still do it anyway.
4. When They Insult Their Husband's Family Members
Many women in Nigeria are guilty of this. When their children do things they do not like, they blame their husband’s family instead. Although they do this jokingly, it is a habit they can never stop.
Also, when their children ask them for things that are not within their reach, they tell them to go meet their father’s family members. In this part of the world, we understand that women make lots of sacrifices for their children.
5. Using The Children As An Excuse To Avoid Sex
Child birth could affect the libido of some women; for some other reasons, some may not be interested in having sex as much as they used to. These are logical reasons that could be stated. But many wives in Nigeria would rather use the kids as an excuse to avoid doing it with their husbands.
They either say the kids will hear them or that they are tired. Even when a marriage counselor talks to them about the need to connect sexually with their husband
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