I'm certain most of you always wondered about the things men notice first in women and you didn't get an honest answer yet.
Well, you should know that men aren't so hard to understand because they are pretty straight-forward and you could easily find out what things men notice first in women by simply watching them very carefully every time they meet a new lady.
According to Dr. Paul Dobransky, the author of The Secret Psychology of How We Fall in Love, "In the first five minutes of meeting someone, it's generally physical beauty that attracts men.
This shouldn't come as surprise to ladies that men are initially attracted to women via their physical appearance, but that does not mean all men are looking for that Beyonce's super model type. Different strokes for different folks or fellas. Some men do like thick women, some like them curvy and so on. But it's the first five minutes that counts the most. That's the time you have to use your physical appearance first and then your personality to "reel him in."
Below are some characteristics that men say they tend to notice when they first encounter a woman.
One of the most common things men notice first in women is, of course, their eyes.
It is said that the eyes are the windows to your soul, so I guess we understand why this is the first thing a man notices about a lady.
Usually, eyes tell us a lot about a person. You can find out if that person is lying to you or telling the truth, if it's a nice person or, on the contrary, someone whom you wouldn't want to have around you.
Men love a woman with confidence. Her posture, her ability to look him straight in the eye and her air of confidence are all traits men will be attracted to.
Relationship guru Dr. Paul Dobransky says "men look at curves and shape and he won't hide it, either". So don't be surprised to catch him glancing you up and down when you enter his space.
I've read couple of surveys about the things men notice first in women and in almost all of them, a beautiful smile always have its place among the list.
Well, that’s not very surprising because, after all, who doesn’t like to look at a person with a nice smile?
A lot of research has shown that when you first meet someone, no matter where you are, a nice but genuine smile indicates interest.
Subconsciously, men are drawn to certain smiles. Some like sweet and genuine, while others like a mischievous look.
So, try to smile more often because you never know who will fall in love with your smile, it happens.
5. HER HAIR:
Apparently, another thing most men notice first in a woman is her beautiful and healthy hair.
So, maybe all those long hours spent at the hairdresser aren’t in vain after all. lols...
Research has also shown that most men think that hair which is healthy, stylish, shiny and sleek is a sign of health and youth.
Some surveys have shown that men would like to be with someone with natural, long, flowing, soft hair that smells amazing too.
They like well kept hair that smells good. So make sure your weave is fresh! In fact, research shows that men notice your hair before they notice what you are wearing.
Well, I’m sure this isn’t a surprise for anyone because i myself, i look at women's legs alot and i love it hot..
Men like long and beautiful legs and that is one of the things they first notice about a woman, but you should know that in the long term there are other qualities that matter more to them than a nice pair of legs.
A study that involved more than 200 men and women "revealed that people whose legs are 5% longer than average are considered the most attractive, regardless of their gender."
Studies shows that men like women who wear less makeup.
Real men don't like women who wears a lot of makeup, because if she has too much on then it's not really her. A light amount of foundation that matches her skin tone is the best—when it doesn't match the rest of her skin, it looks too fake and not attractive.
Keep it light and natural looking. And wear lipstick. It doesn’t (and shouldn’t) be bright red, but he will notice moist shiny (yet natural) looking lips.
Yea, you knew that was coming. But be cool about it. That doesn’t mean you should wear spandex or a shirt that leaves nothing to the imagination. Do leave something to the imagination. And remember, some guys like a handful, while others go for the melons.
Yep. He will check out your purse. If you are lugging around a big ol’ bag, no matter if it’s Gucci or not, he will take that as a sign that you are high maintenance and that you are also materialistic (that you need a lot of things). So when it comes to bags, bigger is not better.
Perhaps this is quite surprising but you should know that most men do notice a woman's dress sense.
One recent study has even found that men prefer classier dressers to women who show too much of their skin.
So, apparently all your efforts of dressing nicely don't pass unnoticed after all.
A great (not necessarily expensive) sense of style tells a lot about a person, so pay a lot of attention to the way you dress because you wouldn't want to send the wrong message or bad impression.
So ladies reading this article, look your best and show that smile, whether you are going to the super market or out with your friends. You never know when you are going to encounter "the right one".
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Well, you should know that men aren't so hard to understand because they are pretty straight-forward and you could easily find out what things men notice first in women by simply watching them very carefully every time they meet a new lady.
According to Dr. Paul Dobransky, the author of The Secret Psychology of How We Fall in Love, "In the first five minutes of meeting someone, it's generally physical beauty that attracts men.
This shouldn't come as surprise to ladies that men are initially attracted to women via their physical appearance, but that does not mean all men are looking for that Beyonce's super model type. Different strokes for different folks or fellas. Some men do like thick women, some like them curvy and so on. But it's the first five minutes that counts the most. That's the time you have to use your physical appearance first and then your personality to "reel him in."
Below are some characteristics that men say they tend to notice when they first encounter a woman.
1. HER EYES:
One of the most common things men notice first in women is, of course, their eyes.
It is said that the eyes are the windows to your soul, so I guess we understand why this is the first thing a man notices about a lady.
Usually, eyes tell us a lot about a person. You can find out if that person is lying to you or telling the truth, if it's a nice person or, on the contrary, someone whom you wouldn't want to have around you.
2. A WOMAN'S ATTITUDE:
3. A WOMAN'S SHAPE:
Relationship guru Dr. Paul Dobransky says "men look at curves and shape and he won't hide it, either". So don't be surprised to catch him glancing you up and down when you enter his space.
4. HER SMILE:
I've read couple of surveys about the things men notice first in women and in almost all of them, a beautiful smile always have its place among the list.
Well, that’s not very surprising because, after all, who doesn’t like to look at a person with a nice smile?
A lot of research has shown that when you first meet someone, no matter where you are, a nice but genuine smile indicates interest.
Subconsciously, men are drawn to certain smiles. Some like sweet and genuine, while others like a mischievous look.
So, try to smile more often because you never know who will fall in love with your smile, it happens.
5. HER HAIR:
Apparently, another thing most men notice first in a woman is her beautiful and healthy hair.
So, maybe all those long hours spent at the hairdresser aren’t in vain after all. lols...
Research has also shown that most men think that hair which is healthy, stylish, shiny and sleek is a sign of health and youth.
Some surveys have shown that men would like to be with someone with natural, long, flowing, soft hair that smells amazing too.
They like well kept hair that smells good. So make sure your weave is fresh! In fact, research shows that men notice your hair before they notice what you are wearing.
6. HER LEGS:
Well, I’m sure this isn’t a surprise for anyone because i myself, i look at women's legs alot and i love it hot..
Men like long and beautiful legs and that is one of the things they first notice about a woman, but you should know that in the long term there are other qualities that matter more to them than a nice pair of legs.
A study that involved more than 200 men and women "revealed that people whose legs are 5% longer than average are considered the most attractive, regardless of their gender."
7. HER MAKEUP:
Studies shows that men like women who wear less makeup.
Real men don't like women who wears a lot of makeup, because if she has too much on then it's not really her. A light amount of foundation that matches her skin tone is the best—when it doesn't match the rest of her skin, it looks too fake and not attractive.
Keep it light and natural looking. And wear lipstick. It doesn’t (and shouldn’t) be bright red, but he will notice moist shiny (yet natural) looking lips.
8. THE BUTT AND BOOBS:
Yea, you knew that was coming. But be cool about it. That doesn’t mean you should wear spandex or a shirt that leaves nothing to the imagination. Do leave something to the imagination. And remember, some guys like a handful, while others go for the melons.
9. HER BAG:
Yep. He will check out your purse. If you are lugging around a big ol’ bag, no matter if it’s Gucci or not, he will take that as a sign that you are high maintenance and that you are also materialistic (that you need a lot of things). So when it comes to bags, bigger is not better.
10. Dress Sense
Perhaps this is quite surprising but you should know that most men do notice a woman's dress sense.
One recent study has even found that men prefer classier dressers to women who show too much of their skin.
So, apparently all your efforts of dressing nicely don't pass unnoticed after all.
A great (not necessarily expensive) sense of style tells a lot about a person, so pay a lot of attention to the way you dress because you wouldn't want to send the wrong message or bad impression.
So ladies reading this article, look your best and show that smile, whether you are going to the super market or out with your friends. You never know when you are going to encounter "the right one".